Resently I became officially a mother! The amount of things I came to realise by this gift is bigger than I could ever imagine, as it is the happiness that this tiny human brought to our family! First of all I could never imagine how babies can brought out the best in people, especially the ones you would not expected it from! Most people I ecounter on the street light up when they see my little one and its a marvelous thing to observe! Then I realised that weirdly enough the most people that really light up seeing us and the ones that wanted to interact was men! That onservation troubled me at first because I would expect that, as the nurturers, women would be the ones to take interest in a baby. How dreadful the realisation that we women are so brainwashed to the extend that we reject the greatest gift that has been given to us; to create life! I am really devastated observing in real time what I’ ve been saspecting!
The biggest falure of ‘education’ is making people overthink things so profound as starting a family and feminism came to back it up! I despite the modern thinking so much because of this… Who thought that was so smarter to reject something so natural as to become a parent? How can we consider ourselves the smartest living being on this planet, the moment we consiously subotaging our reproduction? It doesn’t make sense at all if you think about it that way…
At the same time all these people who ‘choose’ not to have children, I garantee that they have no idea how to prioritise things, because they lack the measurement! Believe me when I say there is not a more eficient way to see what is really important in life than having a newborn! No matter what, it cames first and gives you the point to wich you can compare anything else! I have hear it again and again, that a child forces you to figure things out faster! Yet everyone pushes young people to the opposite direction, we are doing a deservise to the youth by saling them lies… I see most people around me suffer and making their own lives harder and more miserable because they believe in those lies and it has to stop!


PS … more thoughts on that are coming!